Is Collaborative Divorce Right for Me?

Consider the Collaborative Family Law Process if some or all of these statements are true for you:

  1. You want a civilized, respectful resolution of the issues.
  2. You want education, guidance and legal advice without the risk of escalated court battles.
  3. You recognize the importance of working through emotions in order to make comprehensive legal, financial and child-related agreements.
  4. You and your partner have children together and you want the best family relationship possible now and in the future, and want to avoid the harm associated with court battles.
  5. You and your partner have a circle of friends and extended family in common.
  6. You place a high value on taking personal responsibility for handling conflicts with integrity.
  7. You value privacy and do not want your personal or financial information available in the public court record.
  8. You recognize that you and your partner can make better decisions about your family and finances than anyone else.
  9. You understand that Collaborative resolution involves achieving your reasonable goals and achieving the reasonable goals of your partner, rather than achieving a financial or child placement victory no matter the human or financial cost.
  10. You value final resolution that avoids the pain and expense of having to return to court multiple times.
  11. Your goals include a vision for your family that extends long beyond the immediate matter at hand, into retirement for you and your partner and adulthood for the children.